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Are you feeling that everything you do pushes your ex away further? Although a breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend can be really depressing, it does not need to mean that the relationship is over. Even if the breakup instantly leaves you with the sentiments of loneliness, confusion and guilt, you may still feel really anxious to heal the wounds and jump right back to that relationship with your ex. Actually this is the worst thing you can do following a break up. You must learn how to react following a break up, and act like a cool crocodile instead of acting like a pathetic, pushy and insistent bull. You must become aware of how not to strain your remaining seed of relation any further, and ignite the torch of passion once more into his/her soul. If you follow correctly my indications than winning back your ex can be easy as pie.
Read and put in practice my seven golden rules, so he/she will literally beg you to take him/her back.
Let´s cut the chitchat then and get to the core of the issue. Rule number 1 ( which is by the way recommended by most of the relationship experts) is to remain confident and keep a positive, cheerful attitude. Have you watched the movie called "The Secret" or even read the
book? You can learn from them how your thoughts can influence the material world and change every little aspect of your present and future life. Optimist thinking makes you attractive, keeps you focused, balanced, organized, healthy, full of energy and boost up your self-esteem while negative thinking... I guess I don´t have to tell you what that does, don´t I?
So what´s the big fuzz about keeping your confidence, you may ask? Rather than going around feeling sad and melancholic and drawn your sorrow into ice cream, chocolate or alcohol
try to find ways that keeps you occupied and happy. Take the depression, seize it by the collar and kick it you know where. Make sure your ex boyfriend or girlfriend finds out that you are strong, that you are more than capable of handling such an unfortunate event, and you are a tough, emotionally balanced individual, who can keep up with his life just as well as before. The bottom line is never let your guard down. Remember the Destiny´s Child song: I´m a survivor, I´m gonna make it...
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Rule number two: Accept the Break Up. You need to accept the reality as fast as possible. Tell your ex that you are okay with it, you are ready to move on with you´re life, no matter how painful it is, that would eliminate all the emotional charge that has accumulated drop by drop in both of you, and you will both feel relieved from all the tension and stress. You will both have time then to analyse your past relationship, discover what went wrong and how to find a solution of fixing it. You will also have the time to logically reconsider your options and be objective about the matter if you two still have anything in common. If your ex realizes that he/she still have strong feelings for you, then he/she will find a way to get back to you.
Rule number three: Don´t contact your ex. Don´t call him or her by the phone, don´t write him or her letters or mails, don´t leave him or her notes or messages! Terminate all communications at once! Live him/her time to breed and to think and most of all space. This may sound like a drastic measurement, but it will be something you will both benefit from, and you are only signaling to your ex that you are ready to move on and everything is okay with you.
Rule number four: Be flexible. If you own the place, don´t give your ex a deadline to move out. Be gentle, be a good listener, sympathize with your ex. When he or she will see this different side of you, it may inspire him/her to build up a new channel of communication with you, that was missing at the time of the breakup.
Rule number five: Go out and live your live like nothing ever happened. Always be surrounded by other people, don´t stay isolated. Call your friends and go have some fun. This does not necessarily means that you have to date someone from the opposite sex but you do need to socialize and spend time with your friends. This not only will prove to be much helpful for your emotional control, but also will convince your ex that they lost something truly valuable.
Rule number six: Be yourself and maintain a good appearance. There was a strong reason why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so try to go back in the past and be the person that he/she felled in love with. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely reflect on your ex behavior as well. You also need to pay attention to your looks, your clothes, your haircut, your shoes, your stride, your smile and even your voice. It would probably be a good idea to change your wardrobe and consult with a stylist. This is one of the most effective way to show your ex that you are doing fine, and don´t need to beg for his /her sympathy. If you are going to make up, than you will do it like two balanced, mature and responsible individuals who are ready to learn from their mistakes.
Rule number seven: Set up a meeting. Once you completed the other steps mentioned above and leaved your ex sufficient time, you can start working out planning when and where you should meet and what you should be saying when the big event will come. This also will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you and if is there any chance that the two of you can make up wit each other. If you want to learn more, make shore you watch the video below then check out the special links, that I have put out for you in order to skyrocket the quality of your life and mine all the hidden treasures within you.
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